Eradicate
stuttering
This was a conversation that I had with a speech therapist
when I aged fifteen:
Me: I am looking for a way to overcome my
stutter. I have had this speech impediment since the age of
four and I am desperate to achieve fluency.
Speech therapist: I can help you in various
ways, such as with your breathing; however there is no known
cure a stutter.
Me: So you are telling me that there is not
a person in the world who has managed to eradicate their
stutter?
Speech therapist: Well I can not be sure of
that but the experts have stated that there is not a cure for
stuttering.
Me: So how come I can talk to myself
without any problems at all? I can also sing without the
slightest hint of a stutter, I am perfectly fluent in these
situations. Surely there must be something in this.
Speech therapist: I understand what you are
saying however our stance is that it would be better to accept
the stutter and to find ways to improve your overall fluency
rather than to focus on a cure.
Me: For me that is just far too negative.
By thinking in this way means that you are accepting second
best in life, this is something that is wrong in my and my
family’s opinion. There is no way that I will ever accept that
I will have this stutter for the rest of my life.
Speech therapist: I like your fighting
attitude however fear that this whole speech impediment and
your quest for fluency could take over your whole life.
Me: The stutter has already taken over my
life; it is on the forefront of my mind each and every minute
of the day. Even when I go to bed I am unable to stop thinking
about it. I respect your honesty in confirming that you can not
provide me with the answers that I am looking for however I
would hope that in the future speech therapists will start to
look for a cure for stuttering rather than accepting it.
Speech therapist: I wish you every success;
you certainly have the right attitude. I hope that you are
successful in finding your stuttering cure.
Me: Thank you
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