Stuttering and the fear of
public speaking
Having to deliver a public speech can be a daunting task for
people who are fortunate to be able to speak fluently, can you
imagine therefore how stressful it would be for a person who
has a stutter?
The lead up to the big day is likely to include many a
sleepless night and the person who has the speech impediment
will probably attempt to think of a good reason to get out of
having to give the speech.
It is often at this stage that he or she may start to look for
potential stuttering therapies in a quest to overcome the
stutter or to at least learn about some techniques that could
help in delivering a successful speech.
The key to successful public speaking is extensive preparation.
This is especially so for a person who has a stutter. One
example of preparation is to only choose words that the person
is comfortable and confident of saying.
The majority of people who have this form of speech
impediment will have certain words, beginning with certain
letters that they find harder to say.
This was certainly the case for me. I really hated saying
words which began with the letter b and d.
I would advise people to keep the speech quite short, there is
no problem with doing this, unless the situation requires
something different of course.
Your main aim is to get through the speech without
stuttering and to worry about what other people think is never
a good idea, therefore who cares if people comment afterwards
about how short your speech was?
On the day itself you are likely to be extremely nervous and
there is a chance that you may forget what you had planned to
say. It would be prudent therefore to take with you some
written notes as a form of back up.
At the end of the day, all each of us can ever do in whatever
task we attempt in life is to try our best; this is all anyone
can expect of us.
This is something that I have tried to install in my
children. Give it your best shot, try to think positive, try
not to worry as this tends to make things worse, you never know
you might just surprise yourself.
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