How I overcame my
stuttering-stammering
At the age of twenty two after gaining
promotion to team leader at the Insurance company where I
then was working I decided the time had arrived to try to
overcome the stammer which had plagued my
life.
From the age of sixteen two speech therapists
had told me that as I stammered in adult life I would
stammer for life which as you can imagine was very
depressing for me.
This new position of team leader involved
conducting interviews, presentations etc which needed a
fluent speech. I decided to speak to my parents
about the stammer, explaining to them what a struggle my
life had been.
They were shocked and even though they were
aware of the stammer, they certainly were not aware of
the full implications and problems it had caused me. I
always spoke fairly well around them as I felt
comfortable in their presence.
My father and I then had an in depth discussion
at the way forward and we decided that I should no
longer substitute words, I had to concentrate on
fluent people, trying to work out where and what they
were doing differently from me.
This was a difficult time, I was stammering a
lot more as I was no longer swapping words, I had to
explain to my friends what I was trying to achieve and
that it was now time that I ordered my own drinks.
Explaining this was very awkward and embarrassing. My
friends were very good to me though and vowed to support
me.
What followed was six months of hard work with
me feeling at times that I was hitting my head against a
brick wall, as a lot of the things I thought would work
didn't!
Finally I found what I now call the last piece
of the jigsaw, which enabled all the other aspects I had
learnt to all fit into place. A jigsaw isn't a jigsaw
with one piece missing: These discoveries made what I
know call the "speech rules".
At this point I did not stop stammering
completely but each time I stammered I knew why I had. It
was now a case of a severe amount of practice in making
the speech rules natural, so that I would not have to
keep constantly thinking about my speech, and learning
from the mistakes that I was making. Within three months
it became natural.
This as you can imagine was a great relief and
achievement proving that stammering can be
overcome.
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